Love & Sex
Dear Gabbie,
When you hear the topic love and sex what comes to your mind? When the topics surf the world most people mainly teenagers believe that in order for their relationship to have some meaning and to keep their man happy they must have SEX. After they've had sex with their mate they then believe that their mate LOVES them. In all reality it was a game, full of lines. Life is fully of fantasies and in most girls what they think is LOVE is just a "jump off" for most guys. They tell you what they want you to hear so they can get in "between".
I think that women have the upper hand over guys and should take a stand and say no instead of giving guys the upper hand over their sexuality needs (virginity). They need to expand their horizons and seek more in life than men, sex, and drugs. Education is very important in this days and times and I believe that they should focus more on that and then think about the life of love with a man. In life there are so many different things that woman could do to show their love. How would/could you show you love to a man. Is sex a main priority in a relationship?

3 Comments:
I believe sex is a part of a relationship but we should be friends and lovers. But so many men are just about curiousity killed the cat. In other words a man just wants to take you for a ride. So where should we draw the line? When do we know that they are lying until that first time you take it to the next level?
Yes People do think that sex is the main thing that goes on in the relationship, but that it not true because when you are in a relationship you need to be able to understand each others felling. You also need to get married to that person before you have sex with them, yes i know people make mistakes but you can not keep making the same mistake. People also need to think about being committed to that person why do you want to give your body to someone that you are not planning to marry. My thought is that people need to be more educated on being committed in a realationship and not about just thinking about sex.
Love and sex is only messed up in our generation. Back in the days men knew how to treat their woman. All men want to do know is get in between your legs. Women will probably never know a man is truely sincere because we are to use to all the past bad relationships. We try not to say that all men are the same, but in some fashion or form they really are. Sex is something that 2 people agree on whether they are committed or not. Women and men will also spontaneous sex before getting to know each other.
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